S E X is not the means to ‘Self’-realization. Sex cannot give you the answer to the truth you are seeking.
Sex is the most interesting thing within the practical life within the practical world. But the practical life within the practical world is merely an illusion. Thus, whatever sexual acts within the illusion give only illusory fruits.
Having sex or not having sex is nothing to do with the Soul, the ‘Self’. Sex is possible only in the domain of form, time, and space. On the standpoint of the Soul, the ‘Self’, the form, time, and space are merely an illusion. The Soul, the Self is sexless because it is the ever-formless timeless and spaceless existence.
Many Self-declared Guru and Yogis are always talking about sex, but they themselves involved in raping their own disciples. Religious Gurus always suppress their sexual desire. Sex a natural instinct, the hidden desire is always there even one suppresses it.
Some modern Gurus say sex is the life force sex is the way to Samadhi or nirvana or moksha. Such sex-based moksha is merely a hallucination.
Remember:~
Sex to Samadhi is a theory based on the false self (ego). The world in which you indulge in sex itself is an illusion. Therefore, sex within the unreal world will not yield the truth.
Until one realizes on what standpoint the world in which he exists is an illusion it is difficult to understand, assimilate, and realize the truth.
Without a perfect understanding of 'what is what' it is difficult to acquire Self-knowledge or Brahma Gnana or Atma Gnana.
When ‘Self ‘is not ‘I’ then it is erroneous to judge the truth on the base of the ‘I’.
The ‘Self is the Soul, which is the cause of the world in which you exist and it itself is uncaused.
How can the ever formless, timeless, and spaceless ‘Self' can indulge in sexual activities?
Sexual activities are possible within the domain of form, time, and space. Sex is an individual act between two individuals.
The Soul the Self’ is not an individual. Sex is beautiful within the domain of duality which gives some temporary release from worldly stress, but the sex will not bring enlightenment.
Sex-based enlightenment is merely a hallucination based on the false self within the illusory universe or Maya. : ~
Santthosh Kumaar
